"As a woman, I was never taught about self-gratification. I have the ability to give myself an orgasm."
In terms of intimacy with a partner, the ladies share what's most important to them; physical, spiritual or emotional chemistry and why.
[Mature content advisory]
In this episode, Keri Miller leads a very lively, honest and no-holds-barred discussion about sexuality with fellow East Coast Radio presenters Carol Ofori, Stacey Norman and Minnie Ntuli.
The ladies talk about discovering - and feeling confident - with your sexuality.
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In terms of intimacy with a partner, the ladies share what's most important to them; physical, spiritual or emotional chemistry and why it's important.
Here are some of the topics they cover in this insightful podcast:
• Marriage
• Masturbation
• The bond sex creates between two people
• Guilt around sexuality and masturbation
• How sex changes as the relationship progresses
• How sex changes when kids enter the picture
• Fantasizing
• Confidence in the bedroom
• Finding your inner Goddess
• Your personal brand
Read more: "In loving your body, you will do what is best for your body" - Carol Ofori
As a woman, I was never taught about self-gratification. I have the ability to give myself an orgasm - and that just makes everyone cringe.
Self-pleasure? No one pleasures me like me. I love it when I meet someone that knows how to push the right buttons. At some point, I had to tell myself to stop because I was addicted to myself.
No one ever sat me down and had a conversation about it with me. I am a big fan (of self-gratification). If you don't want to do it yourself, there are a lot of things that you can buy that can aid you in this process to make things easier.
What I do know for a fact is that throughout history, women have been shamed for 'enjoying' themselves - and it's very unfortunate. The narrative is that a woman can only enjoy herself if there's a man involved.
I'm with a partner so if I overindulge myself I'd leave little-to-none to enjoy with my husband.
Listen to the full episode below... *explicit language advisory*
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