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What is that one trait that you need to work on to be the most irresistible? We would say, being you, but scientists have news for us...
Finding love and being on the dating market isn't easy, under normal circumstances, add in a pandemic and things get a whole lot fuzzier and challenging.
We have found that when it comes to dating, it's hard! And that's to say the least. Notwithstanding getting to know someone, learning about them and also about you, what you like and what you don't like. It's a full time affair...
So when it comes to being the "it" girl or guy, there is good news. Anyone can be that now, according to scientists, as there is a trait that can be taught and it holds all the keys to being irresistible... or at least that's what we've heard.
What is this one personal trait that leaves you irresistible? It's believed that it is Charisma! Yes, can you believe it?
"The game-changing step to becoming more magnetic is learning how to be present and live in the moment. Think back to the last time you were in contact with a true charmer — you probably felt connected and special, like you were the only person that mattered at that moment. That's because captivators understand the sheer power of being and living in the moment," Your Tango reports.
WATCH a clip from Will Smith's movie - 'Hitch', a classic example of how hard dating can be but how being yourself can be refreshing...(Courtesy of YouTube)
"Did you know that the human mind reads facial expressions in as little as seventeen milliseconds?" (Your Tango Website)
That sure doesn't leave a lot of time for you to make an impression, nor does it leave much time for you to leave the best impression. In a society that prides itself on being multitaskers, we are automatically programmed to rush and get a million things done in a matter of hours, sometimes minutes.
So we end up not being present and not fully appreciating things in the moment. "In fact, according to a 2,250-person study from Harvard University, we miss out on 50 percent of our lives by not being present." (Your Tango Website)
Here is a clear example of how staying true to your personality and being present can benefit you:
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