Keep or cut: Fiancé insists on reusing his wedding ring from previous marriage
My
husband to be is trying to convince me he doesn’t want to waste money on a new ring
for himself.
Most of us have big dreams about what our wedding day will look like and for Thabile in Umdloti that day us close.
However, there is just one thing that seems to be getting in the way of her living her best life and enjoying the preparations.
Hi Vic
So, I have been in a relationship with my fiancé for just over a year and things have been going well.
Last month he popped the question and of course I said yes because I love him.
We’ve started talking about little details around the big day and he is insisting on something which I think is a red flag but I’m not sure.
He was previously married and bought a very expensive wedding ring which he still has, and he is insisting that he wants to reuse that ring when we get married.
I don’t know but something about his previous marriage lingering over ours, does not sit right with me.
He says it’s a practical thing to do because the real bond is between us not the rings and he would rather spend the money on something else for our wedding and not another ring.
What should I do, Keep or cut him?
Thabile in Umdloti
What should Thabile do, keep or cut his fiance who insists on reusing his ring from a previous marriage, at their wedding?
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