Blocking your exes on social media
In today's world, couples tend to post their love on social media with cute captions and perfect pictures, but what happens to those loveable posts when the couple ends things?
Breaking up used to result in returning a box full of old CDs, photos, and memorabilia. Nowadays, it's removing that you're in a relationship on Facebook, removing the action of a joint account, and removing all the pictures from social media.
But, we think the hard part is when people notice and start to question, "Did they break up?".
Taylor Swift and DJ Calvin Harris confirmed their split on Twitter. In the days following, Harris unfollowed Swift on both Twitter and Instagram. Even though the singer still follows the DJ, fans have noticed Swift has deleted many photos of their relationship from her Instagram feed.
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According to WhatsYourPrice, who have surveyed more than 34,000 men and women to determine how social media affects a break-up, men are prone to unfriend or unfollow once they cut ties with a significant other, while women are more likely to stay connected.
Here are the results:
Do you unfollow or unfriend an ex on social media after a break-up?
Men
Yes: 47%
No: 53%
Women
Yes: 19%
No: 81%
The dating experts at WhatsYourPrice have a few social media pointers for those that are newly single. After all, not everything plays out like a Taylor Swift incident.
Don’t Overshare
Although it may seem like it, social media is never the place to vent about controversial thoughts or feelings – this includes heartbreak. Inspirational quotes or images that help you move forward are completely acceptable, but calling your ex out, or mentioning specifics of the break-up should be kept offline.
Be Honest
Forty-seven percent of men and 19 percent of women said they’d unfollow or unfriend an ex after a break-up. This is a “to each their own” situation. Break-ups are about doing what is best for you, so if that means unfriending or unfollowing an ex, that’s okay!
New Photos
Break-ups are often seen as an opportunity for personal growth – let that be reflected in your photos. Whether you’re switching up your gym routine, or simply pursuing a new thought process – let it be known through your social feed!
How do you handle social media following a break-up? Let us know by sending us a voice note on 061 792 9495.