How do you tell your friend that she’s dating the wrong guy?
Jane's friend is dating a guy that is up to no good and she does not know how to tell her...
Listen as KZN weighs in on Jane's dilemma in the podcast then read more below:
How do you tell your friend that she’s dating the wrong guy?
I don’t want to mention names here because I know this friend of mine listens to the show, so I will tread very lightly here.
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I’ve got a friend who’s trying to get back out there, she’s been single for about five years now and just can’t seem to find the right guy. Her track record is not great. Her last relationship was so toxic that it damaged her for such a long time. Naturally, I am worried about her.
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She’s just met someone, who on the surface looks and sounds amazing, but I just don’t trust the guy. I’ve only met him once at a braai and he seemed to be a little too keen, almost like he was overcompensating.
Now here is the tricky part though - I love this girl waaaay too much, and I care for her well-being, but I don’t have solid evidence against the guy, I just have a feeling. Mr T reckons I should let the relationship run its course, but then I don’t want to see her hurt again.
How the heck do I tell her to drop this man?