Anonymous: "My mother-in-law needs a kidney but I can't help her"
Updated | By East Coast Radio
"It's not because I don't want to, I just can't," says this anonymous listener who sent us a voice note about a predicament he's currently in.

Listen to Tuesday's #AmITheDouche, or read below:
We received the following message from a listener:
Hi Stacey
Please keep me anonymous. My mother-in-law has been ill for the last few years and she needs a kidney transplant.
We did some tests and I found out that I am a match, but I am afraid to do the surgery because I have a family history of two relatives not coming out of surgery.
My wife does not understand and says I am refusing to help her mother cause I hate her. It’s causing a lot of problems in our marriage.
Am I the douche for not giving my mother-in-law my kidney?
What are your thoughts on this situation?
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