"Unfriending without offending is the goal," says J Sbu on National Unfriending Day

"Unfriending without offending is the goal," says J Sbu on National Unfriending Day

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UNFRIENDING: "I saw my old best friend in public and then she..."
UNFRIENDING: "I saw my old best friend in public and then she..."

So we've all heard about befriending, but how about unfriending?

With the uncertainty of life, friendship is often put to the test and often times the only way to #SaveYourSanity is to jump ship.

Unfriending is the act of removing a friend from a social circle found on a social media site. In layman's terms, cancelling a friend, giving them the boot or simply unfollowing them.

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On National Unfriending Day, we are checking in with KZN about their experiences with unfriending someone. Tune in at 16:00 to hear the verdict. 

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After you've unfriended someone or been unfriended, it can be super awkward. 

"You can cut the tension with a knife," says one user.

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Here is what to do after you have been unfriended:

  • Don’t ruminate over the unfriending, accept it and move on
  • Expand your real life social network
  • Try to figure out what caused the rift for piece of mind
  • Do not stalk the person who unfriended you
  • Find other things to take your mind off of it and spend time with people who add value to your life
  • Seek professional help when needed 

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Unfriending may seem like the simple solution, but you need to be weary of the consequences. 

"Unfriending without offending is the goal," says J Sbu.

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