#TheFixer with Stacey & JSbu: "When my daughter sees a man, she asks if he's her dad"
As a parent, there are a lot of things we want to do for our kids to protect, especially when their feelings are involved.
‘The Fixer’ is a new feature that will be driven by you, KZN.
Listeners can send Stacey & JSbu their personal dilemma stories where they need a resolution, closure or a solution.
Stacey and JSbu will discuss the dilemma on air, and then hand it over to KZN for a judgement-free fix.
KZN will be given the chance to help fix the problem with their thoughts and ideas. If needed, a professional (i.e. a legal consultant or therapist) will advise.
On Tuesday night, Stacey & JSbu received the following message:
My baby's father left me while I was pregnant with my child. He has only asked once about her wellbeing and has never helped out with child support. Now, every time my daughter sees a man, she asks if he's her dad or not. I have purposefully tried to protect my daughter from this conversation, but she is older now. How do I have this conversation with her without breaking her heart? A part of me just wants to lie and say her father passed away.
To send us your stories, you can send us a WhatsApp message using the #TheFixer on 061 792 9495. Or you can email the producer, Zama, here: [email protected].
Listen to the podcast to what KZN had to say to the mother: