#TheFixer: "My fiance wants me to have his sister in my bridal party but I do not want her in it"
When the big day eventually comes, you want to have those closest to you standing right by your side wishing you well and "holding your hand" on one of the biggest days in your life.
Weddings are definitely very special, so it is important to have those closest to you by your side at the altar, but what happens when you feel forced to make someone your bridesmaid when that wasn't the plan?
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Is it fair to be asked by your partner to make their sister part of your bridal party? Whether you want to or not, it should definitely be a decision left for you to make.
So, KZN, we want you to let us know what anonymous should do. Should she cave in or straight out say no?
On Wednesday night, Stacey & JSbu received the following message:
Good day I’d like to remain anonymous. I would like to know Kzn opinion in order for me to make a decision. I'm getting married next year and plans seem to be going well however I have chosen my bridesmaid and maid of honor but it seems as though I need to add my boyfriend/ fiancé sister to my bridal retinue but I don't want to. I feel like my three closest cousin and friend is enough as I know them since birth and we are very close. But it seems as though I'm being nasty not to include her but honestly I just feel it's people closest to me and know everything about me that are more deserving if you know what I mean. Please help- how do I tell my fiancé how I feel without hurting his feelings
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