Smooches! Do you consider yourself to be a good kisser?
An off-air conversation between Stacey and JSbu sparked a debate with Buhle, who does traffic on the show, and Nick Tatham, who does sports on the show.
Listen to the podcast of Stacey Norman getting wooed by KZN listener Simangalis:
Can you really know if you are a good kisser or not? I think we all know that confidence is not an issue with this dynamic duo of Stacey and JSbu, so it will not be a surprise to know that the two think that they are great kissers!
Buhle and Nick were a bit more humble, even though they shared that they thought they were decent enough kissers. If you have never questioned your kissing ability, Stacey and JSbu think you may be being dishonest. According to the duo, no matter how many people you may have kissed, you have probably wondered whether you are a good kisser or not.
Understanding if you are a good kisser is not the same as knowing if you are good at maths, let's be honest! Also, whether someone is a good kisser surely is subjective to what the other person on the receiving end likes and appreciates, no?
As much as chemistry is a science, it is hard to explain. What may work for one individual may not necessarily work for the other. According to an article run by Glamour Magazine and Love Panky, there may be ways in which you can know for sure if you are a good kisser or not.
1. Ask your partner: This is probably the best and most obvious way to find out if you’re a good kisser. Simply ask your partner. Do make sure they know you won’t be offended, but want to make sure they enjoy kissing YOU.
2. Do you change your kissing style per person? Because everyone has their own kissing style and preference, do you change how you kiss based on the person? If so, you are probably a good kisser. Most people who are in tune with their partners are good kissers.
3. Do you kiss based on the moment? This is another question to ask yourself when you’re wondering if you’re a good kisser. If you consider yourself to be a passionate kisser that is great, but just as you have to read the person you’re kissing, you need to read the moment.
4. Do you read your partner's signals? This is where most bad kissers get it wrong. If you can’t read the vibe your partner is giving off, the kiss will not be good.
5. How does your partner respond to your kissing? A great way to figure out if you’re a good kisser is to see your partner’s reaction once the kiss is over. Do they smile and nuzzle up to you? Do they giggle or make eye contact? Those are all good signs.
So, where do you fall into, KZN, do you think you are a good kisser and would your significant other vouch for you? Drop us your comments below and in the mean time, perhaps some inspiration from Usher with his hit song 'Good Kisser' will help:
Listen to what KZN had to say about their kissing abilities:
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