Scandal: "I lived with my partner and found out that he..."

Scandal: "I lived with my partner and found out that he..."

What are the things you only found out about your partner after moving in with them?

Scandal: "I lived with my partner and found out that he..."
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"You only truly know someone when you live with them."

In today's day and age, there are a lot of challenges that cause division between couples. 

Whether it be taking a holiday, spending the night or moving into a home, you are undoubtedly in for some surprises. 

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We decided to ask KZN what their experiences have been and we got some very interesting stories. Listen here: 

Friend of the show, Samke, shares that her husband hides money because "woman like to spend too much money on shopping." 

J Sbu shares that his partner often takes a step outside the house when the couple face conflict. 

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Another ECR Listener, Farren, shares: "We have moved in together recently and he does not pick up anything that isn't his off the floor." 

Stacey and J Sbu discuss this scenario. Listen here

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Do you struggle with open communication with your partner?

Here are some tips that will help you in your relationship:

  • Process your feelings before engaging in a difficult conversation
  • Thinking about timing when having the talk
  • Start with 'I' statements and feelings
  • Focus on being both being heard and listening
  • Make compromising and resolution the goal
  • Set clear boundaries
  • Leave notes for your partner. 
  • Regularly check-in throughout the day
  • Pick up on non-verbal cues
  • Talk about the future
  • Seek professional help or advice when needed 

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