"My mom says that I should not hire a young helper, because I would be playing with fire!" - KZN listener
We all need help, but what if it puts my relationship at risk?
She is currently on the hunt for a live-in helper who can help her manage the household because she and her husband work incredibly long hours. This is something that a lot of working couples can relate to, especially during these difficult financial times.
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Her mom is completely against the move for many reasons, mainly because she believes that as a new wife, taking care of the home is my job. I also told her I told her that I am not opposed to having someone younger than me or my age - she thinks that is inappropriate.
She says it has something to do with opening up an opportunity for her husband's eyes to 'wander'.
She thinks this is ridiculous, but she wants ti know if her mom has a point?
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So, we set out to find out if this has ever played in the mind of other wives or couples in KZN and how they went about at finding a helper.
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