LISTEN: "I introduced my significant other to my kids and then..."
When is the appropriate time for your new partner to meet your kids?
Is there a right time for a potential partner to meet your kids?
Children can often be a major factor that parents need to consider when engaging in a new relationship.
It can often be very daunting to make the formal introduction.
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"What if my kids don't like them, what if they don't like my kids, what will their involvement in my kid's life look like?" These are the questions that race through one's head when "the time comes around".
Stacey and J Sbu have turned to our experts on the streets to see what their thoughts on the matter are. Listen here:
As shared in the podcast above, many people have diverse opinions on the matter. However, one thing is certain, communication between partners is key.
Being able to openly share what your concerns, thoughts, and future wishes are with your partner will allow for a smooth transition as kids are brought into the love bubble.
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Do you struggle with open communication with your partner?
Here are some tips that will help you in your relationship:
- Process your feelings before engaging in a difficult conversation
- Thinking about timing when having the talk
- Start with 'I' statements and feelings
- Focus on being both being heard and listening
- Make compromising and resolution the goal
- Set clear boundaries
- Leave notes for your partner.
- Regularly check-in throughout the day
- Pick up on non-verbal cues
- Talk about the future
- Seek professional help or advice when needed
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