"I left my wife and kids for another woman and I now want her back - help me!"- KZN listener
Ever heard the saying that the "grass is not always greener on the other side?"
Well, this rings true for an instalment of #TheFixer which we are deeming, as perhaps, our most controversial to date.
The team are hearing from a KZN man who has requested to remain anonymous. As always we honour the request for anonymity and will call him 'Justin'.
Why does he want to be anonymous?
'Justin' made a regrettable choice that has impacted his entire life. Upon learning from his 'mistakes', he is now seeking to make things right and is hoping that Stacey and J Sbu - as well as the rest of KZN - can come to his aid.
Have a listen to his full story, as told by the man himself in the short podcast below:
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Can anyone say... MESSY?!
So, 'Justin' was unfaithful in his marriage and had an affair. He made the decision to leave his wife and three kids to pursue a new relationship.
However, it did not take long for him to realise that his decision to give up his family was not the right one for him.
He has since ended his affair and now wants his wife back.
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We think we may already know the answer to this but what are your views? Do you think he has a chance to stand at redemption?
Have a look at what our Facebook community had to say below:
On KZN Listener gave his two cents on his relationship with his wife and how she "nags" him all the time...
Sadly for 'Justin', the consensus was that his wife deserved more and that he should reap the fruits of his actions.
- "Love her enough to let her heal and find peace. When she’s ready to reach out to you, she will. And if she doesn’t, live with consequences of your decisions, ask for forgiveness and forgive yourself then move on."
- "If he really loved his wife how can he even fall in love with another woman"
- "Contact her parents for??Did you consult them before you had an affair and broke their daughters heart?? No one owes you anything. Let her move on with her life in peace."
- "Don't be a chop, you did it once, you will do it again. Let it go. Stop ruining other people's lives."
- "Life lesson: don’t spoil what you have by desiring what you do not. Hope you work it out somehow. Sadly betrayal is something that’s hard to mend..."
- "So, if you where in her shoes would you forgive and forget and carry on where you left off. .. I very much doubt it. She may not want her old used toy back. Keep walking .... Leave her to find the happiness she deserves."
- "You have made your bed, the least you can do is be man enough to lay in it. Move on from your mistakes and do your best to be a good father to your kids. A great man falls down 7 times but gets up 8."
Eish, 'Justin'...
Have a listen to how it played out on-air with Stacey and J Sbu and the rest of KZN in the podcast below:
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