"I feel the need to pick arguments with him for no reason to spice up our relationship"
Is this normal?
We all know that relationships can be tough, but sometimes adding a little too much fuel to the fire can cause it to explode.
Spicing up your relationship can be tricky, but if done right, it can assist in maintaining the longevity of the relationship.
A listener has reached out and told us about how she has spiced up her love life.
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The listener described her relationship as worry-some. She is worried that if she doesn't keep things exciting and mix it up a little, then she will lose her boyfriend.
The listener states: "We have been together for two years and I love him so much!"
As you can gather, this listener cares for her boyfriend deeply and will stop at nothing to keep him.
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However, there is a plot twist, this listener believes that she may be addicted to drama.
She further describes that he is her perfect match, but, at times, she feels the need to pick arguments with him for no reason to spice up their relationship.
I know we will make up ( which is the best feeling) but I think its harmless fun- I try to not start fights that I know we can never come back from but I know it can be exhausting for him to constantly deal with me.
We thus pose the question... is this normal? Are there other people in KZN who feel the same way or resort to similar tactics to inspire passion in the relationship?
We asked our audience on our social platforms to get their take on things...
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Many listeners offered advice, saying: "Recognition of self sabotage is the first step toward change" and "Have to choose what you love more, drama or your man?"
Another said: "You will feel better because all women feel that way."
Although a majority of other listeners decided to be spicy about the whole "addicted to drama" thing, we hope that this listener takes all the advice we have to give her and unlearns the toxic or frivolous traits she is using as a lifeline in her relationship.
We hope that this couple can sort out what's going on in their relation"ship" before they embark on a new journey.
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