You love your partner but your parents don't - what do you do?
You want to get married, but you do not have your parents' stamp of approval - does that spell the end of your relationship?
When it comes to the big events in our lives, there's no doubt that most people want their parents on the journey with them. For support and mostly to share their happiness.
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But imagine you've finally met your person, you think they are perfection, you introduce them to your parents, but they respond with a firm "no". Is it safe to say that the relationship is over at this point or are we done with the days where parents need to approve of a relationship?
I would think it must be extremely difficult not having the consent and blessing of your parents.
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In all honesty, if the person treats the other with love, kindness, and respect, that should surpass everything else, right?
I was lucky that Mr T's kind eyes, and cheery and polite disposition won the family over at the first meeting.
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W24 compiled a list of what you can do if your parents disagree with your partner of choice:
- Communicate: Although you may not be able to reason with your parents, let them know how you feel and do not make things turn sour.
- Be honest with yourself: It will not be an easy journey but you have to be honest about whether or not you can live with your decision to either stay with your partner or cut ties.
- Take care of your relationship: There's no doubt that the revelation will cause some tension or feelings of insecurity but be sure to make your partner feel at ease and supported.