Is it okay to date a co-worker?

Is it okay to date a co-worker?

Since an individual spends most of their life at work, it's no wonder that office romances blossom, but are they a necessary addition to the work-life?

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I get how work connections happen in the same environment. I guess it all has to do with the fact that you share the same interests and that you see each other day in and day out.

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I know of a few successful work relationships that have resulted in happily ever after but in a saying that, I have also heard of relationships that have gone completely south.

According to IOL, South African labour law currently has no policy referring to workplace dating but it is up to individual organisations to create their own in-house policies. 

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An article by Zoosk stated that in a survey by Office Romance Survey, 51% of business professionals have reported that they have participated in some type of workplace relationship. 

All in all, the consensus is that office romances are inevitable and cannot be avoided in many circumstances but baring in mind your career could be at stake if the relationship goes against company policy. 

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Like any relationship, more especially a work-place romance, there are some rules you just have to follow for your own sanity and to save face at the same time. 

  1. Think carefully before you dive in head first - you don't want the unnecessary drama of things not working out. 
  2. If you've met someone that peaks your interest, don't go around telling other work colleagues. You don't want the news spreading like wildfire. 
  3. Keep it professional. It still is work after all.
  4. Set up ground rules with your partner. 
  5. Adhere to workplace policy. You don't want to find yourself in a situation where you could lose your job. 

Surely, as adults, regardless of how things pan out, you don't mix relationship drama at work? Or is that a totally unrealistic comment?

I want to know from you. Have to ever dated a colleague and how did that go for you?

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