Monogamous relationships: For better or for worse?

Listen as KZN shares their views on the topic in the podcast then read more below:

 There are some that truly believe the 'one partner for life' ideology is for them, but there are some who have chosen to go the polygamous route - and it seems to work for them. Most of us, including me, can't seem to fathom the thought of juggling two partners at once. Confusion, confusion!

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Are we as a society too afraid to admit we have fantasies about people other than our partners? Most who have these urges to fantasise over other people avoid being open about it because it goes against society’s view of monogamy. It contradicts what most of us are taught about marriage, sex, and falling in love.

Another popular misconception is that infidelity is predominantly something practiced by men, but that isn’t the case. Especially because it happens in same-sex relationships, as well as with women in heterosexual relationships. In all honesty, the biggest issue here is societal norms and what society perceives as being the perfect relationship.

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Society has sculpted the ‘wrongs’ and ‘rights’, and when something defies or even challenges the norm, then it is deemed ‘unacceptable’. Ultimately it is our choice and decision to choose the way we think. In my opinion, each to their own. I'm not saying monogamy is right or is wrong - it's up to you to make your mind up. What works for some may not for work others.

However, I must admit that a polygamous relationship definitely has to be hard work. I mean, can you imagine mixing up dinner dates and getting confused as to which date is on which day?

Do you think being in a monogamous relationship is keeping us unhappy? Would you be open to a relationship with more than one partner?